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(TW Domestic violence)

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WOMAN BEATS UP BOYFRIEND 

Domestic violence goes bad when a wanna be hustler tries to beat up his girlfriend she turns the tables and she then winds up beating him down.

damn. smh.

this is why i dont eat pork

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This nigga obviously don’t watch UFC, you never let someone fat get a full mount on you… it’s curtains after that. And on top of that she did it twice. 

TRIGGER GOD DAMN WARNING

I want to point out that no one talks about how she’s asking for help. Or that she is sobbing afterwards.

She’s a big girl and she’s ” winning” so this is funny

Let’s remind everyone of that when we talka bout why Black women are ” difficult ” or don’t seem soft

That the issue is embarrassment.

This is the shit I worry about in the street. This is shit I worry about my body about having to think if i can defend my self because not only is help not coming , 

I have to fight

I have to win

And motehrfuckers will LAUGH and post it on youtube as I cry and shake

So important, this.

This is not fucking funny. THIS IS NOT FUCKING FUNNY. She is not “taking him down” or beating him down—she is fucking DEFENDING HERSELF. and this could get her thrown in fucking jail—because we see this and think it’s funny or that she’s threatening or scary or using her weight to beat him down. women of color over and over and over again get thrown in fucking jail for DEFENDING THEMSELVES FROM THIS SHIT. WHite feminists AGREE that women who defend themselves are just as guilty as the man (PLEASE see the reaction to bfp’s posts on the eminem video)—or that it just doesn’t—can not—happen. she is demonstrating what happens every single fucking day across the US—women defending themselves from IPV in the only way they know how to—with their fucking fists and/or their mouths—and THIS COULD GET HER THROWN IN PRISON.

and people will laugh at it and make pork jokes and make HER out to be an aggressor? SHE WAS FUCKING DEFENDING HERSELF. AND THIS IS NOT FUCKING FUNNY.

It’s pretty fucking clear that he started shit and she was defending herself.

Not a single hand.

Not a single person tryina do nothing for this girl.

And even if she was skinny and attractive, no one would probably do shit anyway.

Price of being a brown girl.

This shit made me cry. All those people in the street cooning and acting stupid, but no one could help her. Damn shame.

(Source: youtube.com, via ashleyrae89)

— 3 months ago with 661 notes
  1. hardyhahahlove reblogged this from twilight-minaj and added:
    Like how he hit her when she let him up.
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  5. ebeleebeleebele reblogged this from livinglifeintheoc and added:
    LOL ^^^^^^^^^^^^
  6. pure-4lchemy reblogged this from boppin-bitch
  7. boppin-bitch reblogged this from preteenwhore and added:
    oh hell no if that was me i wouldnt let that nigga up his ass woulda done been fucked up. i pray for the man that ever...
  8. karmastroublee reblogged this from livinglifeintheoc
  9. life-suxx reblogged this from preteenwhore and added:
    happy black history month
  10. preteenwhore reblogged this from livinglifeintheoc and added:
    holy fucking shit
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  13. summer-and-cinnamon reblogged this from soulfulandtrue and added:
    video/mini movie (cuz the quality...crazy) almost made me cry .. this is what happens...
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  19. tyece reblogged this from childiswealth and added:
    looks like she was defending herself to me. Meanwhile, no cops…..no protection
  20. pedaltothemetal reblogged this from pedaltothemetal and added:
    i bet they’re together today lol
  21. neverletgo0fanythingg reblogged this from glamourgirlsandwhiskey
  22. glamourgirlsandwhiskey reblogged this from johnytrash and added:
    I like the “this is why I don’t eat pork” comment. THIS IS WHY I DON”T EAT MEAT
  23. johnytrash reblogged this from naughtybynature94 and added:
    this is awesome!
  24. misswhiskerzz reblogged this from ftm420
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  27. jedihersh reblogged this from imabrickshithouse and added:
    fuck the fight what kinda camera is this shit look like a scene from crash